Make Everyone Like You

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Make Everyone Like You
Your true potential is enhanced by the sumcheap coach handbagswomens t shirtBurberry scarfof all the people who like you, and thus would go out of their way to assist you in a time of need. Unfortunately, there is no quick-fix guide for becoming extremely likeable. Likeability is tied deeply into some of your most stubborn, long-standing habits and behaviors. “Beginning today, treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. Extend them all the care, kindnessCheap wedding dresschristian audigier jeanscheap shoespregnancy testand understanding you can muster. Your life will never be the same again.”—Og Mandino
As with conquering anyAir Freshenersstainless steel valvecheap ed hardynike dunksmajor personal change, it takes time and practice. These twenty-one steps will get you there. Self-centered people are usually unlikable. When you’re involved in a conversation, it’s important to focus more on the other person and less on yourself. If you genuinely concern yourself with others and listen to them closely, you’ll make scores of friends with little effort. Remember, everybodynike shoxfire pitdiet pillsloves a good listener.
Go out of your way to personally acknowledge and compliment the people who have gone out of their way to shine. Everybody likes to hear that their efforts are appreciated.If people cannot get a hold of you, or have troubletiffany jewelryRock drillrattan furnituregauzeapproaching you, they will forget about you. Your general availability and accessibility to others is extremely important to them. Always maintain a positive, tolerant attitude and keep an open line of communication to those around you,Most people have a very low tolerance for dealing with people they can’t understand. Mystery does not fuel strong relationships and likeability.
All people have the subconscious ability to detect a liar. Even academy award winning actors slip up every now and then. Fake people are not likeable. Ask yourself this: If you don’t like who you really are, why the heck should I like you?People love the sight and sound of their own name, so make sure younail tipnail uv lampflowmeterlearn to remember names. Use them respectfully in both oral and written communication.
You can mirror someone by imitating their body language, gestures, movements and facial expressions during a one on one conversation. The other person will unconsciously pickup on the familiarity of your mirrored actions, which will provide them with anplay equipmentadded sense of comfort as they speak with you. The more comfortable you make them feel, the more they will enjoy being around you.Everyone appreciates the gift of free assistance and those who supply it.

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